A Meaningful Act of Kindness

We are all at a loss of how to deal with the tragic unfolding events in Israel. On the one hand, we feel helpless seeing the horrific images from Israel and reading the tragic stories that have emerged concerning the senseless killing and abduction of innocent men, women and children.

While many of us feel helpless, there is something we can do. In the words found in the stirring prayer of Unetaneh Tokef recited in the Musaf service of Rosh Hashana and Yom Kippur, we call out “U’teshuva, U’tefila, Utzedaka, Ma’avirin et Roa Hagezera,” that with repentance, prayer and charity, we can uproot an evil decree.

Jewish Treats would like to focus on acts of kindness that we can all partake in to make a difference.

Acts of kindness, known in Hebrew as “gemilut chasadim” or simple chesed, are so important, in fact, that the Talmudic sage Shimon the Righteous considered it one of the three things that sustain the world (along with Torah and service to God, Pirkei Avot 1:2).

Often, when a discussion turns to “good acts,” people pull out their checkbooks to make a charitable donation. Donating one’s money to charity is a beautiful and important mitzvah that is known in Hebrew as tzedakah, which comes from the Hebrew word for righteousness (tzedek). However, the sages make a distinction between tzedakah and chesed:

“Our Rabbis taught: In three respects are acts of kindness superior to charity: Charity can be done only with money, but acts of kindness can be done with both, a person’s body and money. Charity can be given only to the poor, acts of kindness both to the rich and the poor. Charity can be given to the living only, acts of kindness can be done both to the living and to the dead” (Sukkah 49b).

Anyone can perform acts of kindness. More importantly, acts of kindness can be small, seemingly insignificant, gestures (holding the door for someone, passing along a resume or preparing a meal for a new mother and her family) or large (allowing someone to live in your house while they look for a new home, chauffeuring someone to multiple doctor visits). And no matter how simple the act may seem, to the recipient, that kindness is priceless.