Drinking on Purim
“A person should drink on Purim until the point where they cannot tell the difference between Ã¢â‚¬ËœBlessed is Mordechai’ and Ã¢â‚¬ËœCursed is Haman.’
Talmud-Megillah 7a/Shulchan Aruch (Code of Jewish Law)
On Purim, one is commanded to drink wine to a point of inebriation. This is usually fulfilled during the course of the festive meal, although many also attempt this on Purim night, as well.
How much should one drink?
The purpose of drinking on Purim is not to get so drunk that one is unable to function. It is generally agreed that the requirement is limited to the point of not impairing one’s ability to recite blessings and fulfill the necessary mitzvot of Purim.
Most opinions agree that one should drink more than one is accustomed. The Talmud actually suggests as well that the mental blurriness necessary can also be fulfilled by a drink-induced nap.
What does it mean “cannot tell the difference between Ã¢â‚¬ËœBlessed is Mordechai’ and Ã¢â‚¬ËœCursed is Haman?'”
On a simple level, this is just a description of a level of intoxication, a point at which one has trouble making clear distinctions between right and wrong, good and bad.
Not being able to tell the difference between Ã¢â‚¬ËœBlessed is Mordechai’ and Ã¢â‚¬ËœCursed is Haman’ accentuates one of the major themes of Purim, which is role reversal.
On a more philosophical level, when Ã¢â‚¬ËœBlessed is Mordechai’ and Ã¢â‚¬ËœCursed is Haman’ become indistinguishable, one has grasped a higher concept that even the negative which happens is good, that it comes from G-d and, in the end, makes us better people.
Why do we drink on Purim?
When reading the Purim story, one sees that wine plays an important role in events that transpire:
- King Achashverosh is drunk when he calls for Vashti and when he orders her banished (*Targum and Rashi both say she was killed).
- Esther invites the King and Haman to a banquet, which the Megillah refers to as a wine-banquet.
- The Megillah describes the 14th and 15h of Adar as days of “feasting and joy,” inferring that the Jews celebrated with feasts of wine.
While drinking on Purim is a mitzvah, risking one’s life is not. Whether host or guest, it is important to be responsible:
- DO NOT DRINK AND DRIVE
- Beware of underage drinking. While Purim is a religious holiday, and underage alcohol consumption is allowed for religious occasions, adults are still responsible for minors. Please do not give young people any alcohol beyond the bare minimum of wine, if at all. Remember, our children are deeply influenced by our own behavior.
- While Purim is a religious holiday, and underage alcohol consumption is allowed for religious occasions, adults are still responsible for minors. Please do not give young people liquor beyond the bare minimum, and remember, our children are influenced by our behavior!